Perfect by Alanis Morissette Song Info
Alanis Morissette's "Perfect" handles the complications of parental expectations and societal pressure, providing a moving examination of the toll these standards take on a person's sense of self-worth. The words propagate the idea that only perfection deserves love, painting a vivid picture of an oppressive individual that is probably a father or other authoritative figure. The second verse of the song explores the emotional agony that results from ultimately falling short of these high expectations in greater detail as the song goes on. The sharp query, "How long before you screw it up?" along with the hurried, "hurry up" repeat express a sense of exasperation and glaring lack of empathy. The chorus reappears, reinforcing the central idea that acceptance and affection are contingent on fulfilling the unachievable requirements laid out. The phrase "That wasn't fast enough… to make us happy" highlights how unsatisfactory these expectations are and how they feed an unachievable need for acceptance. "Perfect" serves as a call to evaluate the toxic nature of chasing perfection and the adverse impact it can have on one's self-esteem and well-being.
